Wow thanks for the response guys.... you don't know how much you're all gonna cost me!!!
Back end is settled then I think... going for the std 12mm dropout option, just need to get some now

Maxle would have been good, but conisdering value for money and the same or almost same stiffness it's not worth it. Although I did note the Maxle Lite in Red is on offer at CRC for £25 !!!
The Wheels will prob be black and purchased from someone like Bike-outlet, they seem to be the cheapest at the moment. Tempted by 2nd hand crossmax sx, but heard the hubs are pants!
Would love White Stans, but I'm prob talking an extra £60/70 for the customer build although I could get the black one painted for an extra £20 or so......
Really really keen on the front fork upgrade, that's almost made my day..... does mean I want it all now rather than doing bit by bit.....
I may have to strip my old Kona and sell it seeing as though I've not used it in over a year and I dont do as much free riding / downhill anymore..... I'm more of a trail centre tart nowadays !!!
Cheers for the advice up to now and if you know where I can get some white stans at a similar price to black or god forbid some hope hoops someone please let me know!!!!!!